Autism is more than observable behaviour: it is a way of thinking and experiencing the world.
- Nishtha Shah
- Apr 1, 2020
- 4 min read
World Autism Day: 2nd April, 2020
Autism Week: 30th March - 5th April, 2020
Autism is a lifelong neurodevelopment condition with an early onset in
childhood that affects how people perceive the world and interact with others.
A person who is on the Autism Spectrum experiences the world around them
differently, which can impact their intellectual, emotional, social-communication, and
motor skills. This makes it daunting for them to relate to our typical world, and it not
only affects the individual but their whole family.
Since Autism is a spectrum condition, all individuals who are diagnosed with it
may share similar characteristics but will experience their condition differently. It is
characterised by repeated patterns of behaviour, and can vary from mild or moderate, to
severe.
Why is it that everyone who identifies as autistic or on the autism spectrum is so
different?
Autism Spectrum Disorder is a broad term and a lot of people fall under that
category. It is a term describing cognitive differences in an individual and therefore
everyone who is diagnosed with ASD is going to be different. You cannot apply the same
knowledge nor can you expect them to be similar. There will be a lot of diversity within
the group of individuals with autism.
As the cliche goes “if you have met one person with autism, you have met one
person with autism”.
Across the vast population of India (1.3 billion), one third of its population is
constituted by children <15years, and it has been estimated that more than 2 million
individuals are on the autism spectrum (Krishnamurthy, 2008). The prevalence rate is
higher in boys than in girls, as the female population is conditioned to be better at
camouflaging their mistakes and areas of difficulties. Even in schools, girls are usually
identified less often by the teachers as requiring more help. This makes it extremely
important for all of us to be aware about this condition to better help and support not only
the children who are on the spectrum but their families too.
What are some prominent characteristics of people with autism:
● Maintaining a routine
● Following patterns
● Repetitive behaviours
● Over and under sensitivity to sound, light and texture, smell, temperature and pain
● Inappropriate social behaviours
● Unusually deep or fixated interest in a subject or activity
Individuals who are diagnosed with autism tend to have cognitive delay, with 70%
of children having a non-verbal IQ of 70 or below. This impacts and affects their
learning, holistic growth and social compliance. In parallel, depending on the severity of
the condition some individuals also identified as Aspie’s (Asperger Syndrome) are linked
with average or above average intelligence and skill sets.
So how can we support individuals who are diagnosed with autism?
What can we do to make them and their families feel better?
It sometimes becomes extremely difficult to manage children and young adults
who are diagnosed with autism. Due to a lack of communication skills, especially for
children who are non verbal, it can become extremely daunting for them to express their
needs. As a result, they can have meltdowns and certain behavioural patterns that they
engage in to calm themselves. For instance, a child would bang his head, scream and
even bite himself in order to express what he wants or his feelings, which isn't how most
children would behave, even if they’re acting out. This is terrifying for a parent,
especially in an outdoor setting. The parents are usually scared or embarrassed, and
would not know how to help their child. This does not permit us to isolate or to segregate
them.
So the next time you are outside in a mall or a grocery store or a park, do not laugh
or look down upon a parent who cannot handle their child due to such a situation. It is not
bad parenting, and it is definitely not the parent’s lack of interest in taking care of their
child. Instead, try to support them and ask how you can be of help.

As an individual, it is necessary to educate yourself about the very real and widely
prevalent condition of Autism. Support mothers and fathers who might be dealing with
this - introspect and identify how you can be of help to a family who has a child with
autism. Your child will probably have a classmate who is also diagnosed with Autism.
Help your child learn about autism and how to make their classmate feel included rather
than looked down upon or laughed at.
There are standardised intervention plans and various therapies that can benefit an
individual diagnosed with Autism. Some parents, albeit not enough, do take their child
for therapy which is extremely beneficial but as responsible members of society, the only
productive way we can help these families is by being more empathetic, sensitive and
aware of the situation.
Stigma affects not only the number of people seeking treatment, but also the
number of resources available for proper treatment. Stigma and misinformation can feel
like overwhelming obstacles for someone who is struggling with a mental health
condition. The first step towards acceptance is acknowledgement, and as we progress into
the modern 21st century, it is imperative that we as a society embrace mental health and
mental illnesses as normal, widely-prevalent and manageable.
Let me leave you with some quick but powerful things you can do to be of
immediate help:
1. Show respect, acceptance and love!
2. Ensure the individuals on the spectrum get the same opportunities as you in
school, at work and in the society.
3. Never stop learning about mental health and how it affects human life!
This is such an important topic usually outcasted by the people of the society and not taken as very crucial. This article you wrote about puts a high impact on the gravity of the situation and conveys the meaning behind this very sensitive & important topic. I am inspired to come across someone like you who is doing something so necessary and so remarkable for the empowerment of children around the world who shall be the future generation. This article is an informative insight into autism and is gripped with all the aspects of autism and development. Amazing !
Thankyou for Veracity and Simplicity on such a crucial topic related to children and young adults.